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Stop chasing fairy tale princes &
discover your true hero: YOU!
Full of sass, soul and the type of empowering wisdom that no woman should live without, Choosing ME before WE, is like a heart-to-heart with your closest girlfriend. And best of all, you’ll discover that your closest girlfriend is your own truest self, inside of you, always ready to offer wise, loving advice and counsel about what is best for you.
Designed to challenge and guide women to create the relationships they want instead of the ones they often find themselves stuck in, this book is packed with:
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Stimulating questions to uncover what’s true for you, daring you to get downright real about yourself and your relationships |
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Powerful actions to change old habits that sabotage you, your life and your choice in mates |
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Real-life experiences shared by the author, her friends, and her clients |
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 Published by New World Library
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The author, Christine Arylo explains the inspiration for writing this book:
 "I wrote this book, as a woman who almost married the wrong guy for all the wrong reasons, to speak to women of all ages, whether you’re seeking a relationship, evaluating a less than fulfilling one, rebounding from a bad breakup, or working through issues with a partner, Choosing ME before WE can teach you how to stop settling, to get real about the kind of partner you are looking for, and to start exploring and creating what you truly want in yourself and your relationship."
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A sample tasting of the chapters
Readers are taken through three sections, ME, HE, & WE:
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Part One. MEKnowing ME: Who is This Woman Called ME?
Getting beyond the image to unleash the true you
Truthfully ME: How Real Am I With Myself?
The lies we tell & the honesty we need about our selves, our guys and our relationships |
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Part Two. HEChoosing Your Core Four™
Get the man you want by getting clear on what YOU really want first |
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Part Three. WEGetting Wise About WE
3 shortcuts to creating authentic partnerships instead of unhealthy relationships |
Author's Note: While I fully believe that Choosing ME before WE is a book for all women, at some point I had to choose a pronoun, and HE is the one I’ve always related to. Whatever your lifestyle choices and sexual orientation, if you are a woman who wants to explore, discover, and love more of herself, then this is a journey is for you, and I hope you’ll decide to take it.
It felt like I was talking to my girlfriend or with someone whose opinion I could really trust.
– Shabnam, Chicago, IL
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Publisher’s Weekly Says:
"Author and life coach Arylo's own life story informs every page of this insightful book.
After a 15-year relationship, her fiancé called it quits two hours before the engagement party, causing Arylo, a successful marketing executive, months of devastation and self-doubt.
This three-part guide about co-dependent relationships, settling for the wrong man and not knowing what you want begins with “Me,” showing how crucial it is to get to know yourself first because “our relationships are mirrors of ourselves.” Arylo delves a little deeper than most by being honest about how many women are in denial about relationships being fueled by the fear of being alone and feeling incomplete. In part two (“He”), the author guides the reader through a series of visualizations to identify four core qualities the reader wants in her future mate, and part three (“We”) advises on maintaining authenticity and intimacy in a relationship.
This exercise in intention-setting and manifestation will help any woman who wants a lasting partnership that reflects her own true self. (Mar.)"
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What Readers Are Saying
"With wit and wisdom, Arylo teaches us how to find the answers about love and relationships inside ourselves."
– Marcia Wieder, founder
and CEO of Dream University® |
"Christine Arylo offers the tips and tools a woman needs to fall in love with her ultimate soul mate: herself. Every woman should have Choosing ME before WE on her nightstand."
– Christine Hassler, author
of 20 Something, 20 Everything |
"This book helped me… in the course of reading it, I learned about the Core Four and I created a relationship with a man that is matching me right now in my life. I do not hold the idea or illusion of what it will become. I embrace what it is right now, knowing that my heart overflows with love that I have not shared with someone in over seven years!"
– Tarja, San Diego, CA |
"If your relationship with yourself or your partner feels unhealthy, it probably is. This book delivers the medicine to put you on the road to recovery, just keep in mind that medicine can be hard to swallow. If you’re in healthy relationships with yourself and your partner, then this book is just like a good vitamin."
– Laurie, Columbus, OH |
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