"There is nothing more beautiful, powerful or free than a woman who truly loves herself "
-- Christine Arylo
Christine Arylo is a smart, sassy and soulful speaker who engages audiences with her wit, humor, personal and frank stories, perspectives and insights. Born to inspire, Christine brings both truth and heart to her talks and workshops, bringing forward conversations and topics that shift people inside so that they can create the lives that they really want on the outside.
OVERWORKED, OVERWHELMED & OVER IT! Transforming stress and self-criticism into feminine super powers and self-love
CHOOSING ME BEFORE WE How to be happy and smart in your academic life and your love life
MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME The Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend
Whether you’re looking for the right person to book on your show, for your event or for your community, Christine has a powerhouse of fresh ideas to share that will get people questioning, talking and - most of all - inspired to take action to get the love, happiness and success they really want. A former marketing executive and seasoned event and workshop leader, she knows the ropes of delivering a great experience for everyone involved, from the first conversation through post event reflections. Her programs can be delivered as a keynote, a half-day or full day workshop depending on your needs. To contact Christine about your event, email christine.arylo@daretoliveyou.com or call 510.482.5858.
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Christine also speaks with high school, middle school girls on the topics of self-love, relationships and success. She facilitates conversations, speaks to large groups and also has several workshops tailor made for today’s girl. Contact Christine to learn more.
OVERWORKED, OVERWHELMED & OVER IT!
Transform your Stress and Self-Criticism into Feminine Super Powers and Self-Love
Today’s woman knows she can do ANYTHING but feels a tremendous pressure to be EVERYTHING right now and perfectly…until now!
As a recovering achievement junkie and doing addict, Arylo sheds the spotlight on some of the most unspoken dis-ease plaguing the 21st century woman... she can’t stop doing, she’s beating herself up daily, and she can’t seem to find the ‘time’ to take care of her most important partner, herself. Arylo suggests that the one of the reasons we are so out of whack is because we've been trained to be human doing machines – valuing ourselves based on what we accomplish vs. who we are. We are over relying on our man powers (make it happen, get it done, do it yourself), instead of activating and using our much more sustainable feminine super powers (intuition, compassion, receiving, vulnerability, connection). In this keynote or 90-minute interactive talk, women receive:
Finally! The answer to why they are so hard on themselves, drive themselves so hard, and can’t seem to find balance no matter how hard they try: The 3 F’s – false feminism, fake ideals and a fear-based world.
The AHA! and deep relief that that they are not alone in feeling like they are always failing, falling behind, or feeling like they are not enough (all women feel this way)
Permission to give themselves a break, slow down and take care of themselves, without having to give up success or be called selfish (mostly by themselves!)
Daring, fun, yet practical tools – the Feminine Super Powers – that women love using to take care of themselves (guilt, obligation and exhaustion no more)
A commitment and road map to self-love, self-care and self-compassion – that sticks!
IS YOUR INNER MEAN GIRL OR GUY ROBBING YOU OF YOUR SUCCESS?
3 Super Powered Tools for Turning your Inner Critic Into Your Best Business Partner
The biggest threat to your career and business success is not out there in the marketplace – in your competition or a downturn in the economy -- but instead the thing most likely to rob you of your success is living and breathing inside of you! It’s name is your Inner Mean Girl (or for guy’s, your Inner Bully or Inner Mean Dude.) Some people call this your inner critic, but let’s be frank, that internal chatter feels a lot more personal than some psychological theory. You can have the best strategies, the most stellar product, but if you don’t have the right mindset you will fail…and you’ll work really hard to do so. And no matter how hard you work, you’ll always end up feeling less happy and successful than ever. In this keynote or 90-minute interactive talk, Christine shares:
The most common Inner Mean Girls and Dudes and the cost of letting them run your career and business -- the Slave Driver, Achievement Junkie, Doing Addict, Perfectionist and Wishful Thinker – including keeping you working like a dog, doing all the work yourself, and spending money, time, and energy in the wrong places.
The 3 most common Inner Mean Girl and Dude toxic tricks – Comparison, Unrealistic Expectations, and Future Tripping – and the practical and powerful antidotes to keep in your back pocket.
How to build your emotional, mental and spiritual muscles everyday so that when self-doubt, self-criticism and mind chatter show up, you can find the voice of clarity and wisdom (a.k.a. your super smart Inner Wisdom.)
The best way to secure your success and happiness – keep your mindset healthy!
See Christine on ABC-TV talking about Inner Mean Girls.
WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY AFTER ATTENDING
ONE OF CHRISTINE’s TALKS on THESE TOPICS
"Christine Arylo is what a 'motivational speaker' should be, truly motivational."
"At a Step Up Women’s Network event, she presented to a very up-and-coming, career-focused group of women and spoke dead on to the issues they face and offered innovative, creative solutions. After Christine’s talk, most attendees were hungry to learn more of her insights and techniques so purchased her book to learn more! We can see why she is known as such an effective life coach."
– Gina Marotta, Managing Director Women’s Step Up Network
"Christine really understands what it's like to be a woman of the 21st century"
"Whether it's dealing with or even embracing aspects of life in corporate America or managing your natural tendency to want to be everything to everyone all at once, Christine can help you appreciate where you are today without giving up on where you want to be tomorrow."
– Ana Perez, General Electric and Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management
"Your very inspiring, real and relevant talk on 'Overworked, Overwhelmed and Over it!' really struck a cord."
"Thank you for delivering such a powerful keynote forour event at the Qualcomm Center in San Diego this February.You had the men and the women in the audience intrigued, inspired and in ACTION! I am still getting calls from the people who were there – telling me what a huge difference you made intheir lives !!"
– Terrie Sulpthin, Event Manager
"Thank you for bringing your wonderful talents to the Kellogg and Wharton Women of the BayArea! "
"After last week’s workshop, I’m spending more time celebrating, recognizing and acknowledgingmy hard work and achievements. Thank you for reminding me how important it is to pause and recognize my accomplishments."
– Sarah Roach, Chair, Kellogg Women’s Alumni Bay Area
For COLLEGE CAMPUSES, SORORITIES, HIGH SCHOOLS & CONFERENCES
Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
Transform Your Inner Mean Girl into your B.F.F.
Inside of every college girl’s head is a voice that rants (far too often) thoughts like, “You are a failure,” “You’re fat. You’re dumb. You’re ugly,” and “You’ll never be able to do it, so don't even try.” She applies tons of pressure to be perfect, to achieve more, and to do it better than every one else. And she loves to compare your worst to everyone else’s best, so you lose every time. Some people call this voice the inner critic, but it is way more personal than that – it hurts. This is the voice of your Inner Mean Girl. She is like the cool kid who makes you feel like the most unpopular girl in school. She steals your happiness, makes you feel alone and unloved, and keeps you from being your most brilliant, bold and beautiful self.
What if you could turn down the volume on her critical voice? Retune your mind from 88.9 F.E.A.R. to 108.00 L.O.V.E.? You can! The most important relationship in your life is your relationship with YOU. When you transform it, everything transforms. In this interactive keynote or mini-workshop, you will:
Learn the 5 most common Inner Mean Girls, and hear how even the girls that seem most together on the outside have these mean voices on the inside.
Meet your Inner Mean Girl face to face – her name, looks, personality, weapons and biggest lies, so that you can get her off your back on your side.
See how she holds your happiness and success hostage on a daily and lifetime basis – and what you can do to take your power back (including giving her a new job or sending her on vacation!)
Learn ways that you can change the channel in your head from fear to love, from meanness to compassion, and from lies to honesty in minutes.
Receive fun practices for making your self-love stronger every day. Daring acts of self-love that can take as little as 3 minutes and as long as 40-days,having the power to transform your relationship with YOU.
CHOOSING ME BEFORE WE
How to be happy and smart in your academic life and your love life
Just think of what would be possible if all the hours you spent talking, crying and analyzing about your love life were applied to you living your best life…. how much happier, stress-free, and successful would you be? A lot! Dating is confusing. Relationships can be even messier. Being without a date can bum out even the most confident girl. For something that is supposed to make you feel so good, love can sure make you feel so bad. When you are looking for love in all the wrong places, and seeking advice from friends who don’t really know any more than you, your love life (or lack of) can create drama, distraction and devastation during a time that is supposed to be some of the best years of your life.
But it doesn’t have to be that way, not when you have the know-how to put your love life into perspective, and use your love life to help you create a better relationship with the most important person you will ever love – yourself. Christine Arylo shares what every women needs to know about love, but that so few do:
You & Your Choices – Why do you settle or sell yourself short when it comes to dating and love, or stay even when it makes you crazy, sad or stressed out?
The Biggest Love Lies and Regrets – All women lie to themselves and make mistakes about love in college that they often regret later. You can avoid many just by knowing these common mistakes and lies.
Choosing ME before WE, no matter what – Take the 5 vows of self-love and you’ll never again choose the attention and affection of a man over the love and respect for yourself.
Men, Dating & Respect* -- Get the scoop on what a good man looks, feels and acts like. Know what you should expect, and what you should chill out about. Learn how to stay empowered and true to yourself while dating.
* Note: The Men, Dating & Respect section can be co-delivered by Christine Arylo and her husband Noah Martin (who is also a speaker and a relationship coach). Young women respond well to getting the imprint of a ‘good man’ (Noah) and having the opportunity to hear from a guy about raising their expectations for men. Additionally, the chemistry between Christine and Noah is a living example of what a good relationship feels like, something many of these girls have never experienced. CLICK HERE to see Christine and Noah on ABC-TV .
WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY AFTER ATTENDING
ONE OF CHRISTINE’s TALKS on THESE TOPICS
"I enthusiastically recommend Christine Arylo as a presenter and inspirational catalyst."
Her lively spirit, engaging personality and unique presentation topic was enough to draw a larger than- expected audience to this event. I am impressed with Christine’s energy and ability to engage her audience in deep conversations about self-love. The students were extremely inspired. In fact, Christine received positive evaluations from all participants.
– Neepa Parikh, Career Counselor, Mills College
"Your words hit home and left a lasting impression."
"You helped us open up and re-evaluate our relationships and how we feel about ourselves. I could literally see the impact of your presentation on the girl’s faces."
– Jessica Jacon, UCLA, Phi Sigma Rho
For SPIRITUAL CENTERS, SELF-GROWTH CONFERENCES AND WELLNESS CENTERS
MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME
The Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend
Affectionately known as the “Queen of Self Love” for her relentless dedication to making self-love a tangible reality for all, Arylo has successfully translated the deep, spiritual quest to return to love and find true and lasting self-love in fun, interactive and enlightening ways that makes self-love a possibility for everyone. In this talk or workshop you will learn:
The Truth About Self-Love: What self-love really is and why you need more than self-esteem to be happy.
Love Cracks: Why we lose our connection to love and learn to trust fear instead of love, and what you can do to heal and seal your love cracks.
The 5 Vows of Self-Love: The promises that every person must make and take with themselves first.
Daring Self-Love Dares and Practices: Take away fun, daring, yet practical ways you can improve the relationship with yourself right now to improve your relationships, career, and peace-of-mind.
CLICK HERE to learn more about Christine’s Madly in Love with ME movement, which has reached tens of thousands of people around the world. Also included is the mini-version of her newest book Madly in Love with ME (published by New World Library Fall 2012) http://www.madlyinlovewithme.com
DARE TO BE LOVED
Open your heart to receive the love and partnership you crave
Single, married or dating, the truth is that most of us push away the thing we want most – love and true, spiritual partnership. Why? Because we let fear move into our hearts and minds and let it run our love life. With humor, honesty and vulnerability, Christine, joined by her soul partner Noah, show both men and women how to:
Kick Fear Out of Your Love Life: Identify the brand of fear that keeps you from letting yourself truly let another person into your heart and see your spirit.
Trade in Love Weapons for Love Wealth: Identify the weapons you use to protect yourself and learn how to use love vs fear to start attracting the love you want – in all relationships.
Make Sure Your Relationships Support Your Dreams: The 3 questions and 1 super power you must have down before you can ever ask your partner for what you need or asses if your partner is Mr. or Mrs. Right.
Create Intimacy and Partnership: We say we all want these things, creating them is another story. Learn three magical tools to move past fear into love to create deep connection with others – The Love Treaty, Love Fighting and The Super Power of Vulnerability.
WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY AFTER ATTENDING
ONE OF CHRISTINE’s TALKS on THESE TOPICS
"People really connected with your heart felt stories and real life."
"It seemed to make it real so people didn't stay in their heads. They were able to move and be integrated with the process of talking with other people. People loved Noah and the support he gave to the workshop."
– Cynthia Ann Garvey, Unity of Marin
"Within a short time, the group had a wealth of knowledge, felt empowered and loved themselves more."
"Christine’s energy was extremely powerful, fun and uplifting. She is definitely someone who has the gift to touch people and make a difference in their life."
– Kimberly Pine, Ruby Room Day Spa, Chicago
Speaker Sheets
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Women’s Organizations and Conferences
Corporate Organizations and Professional Conferences
College and Universities
Spiritual Centers and Wellness Centers
To find out more about how Christine and her powerful – and entertaining -- message can serve the people in your organization or at your event, contact Christine at christine.arylo@daretoliveyou.com or call 800.378.1451.
“To inspire and ignite the powerful, loving spirit within each of us, is a job that I gladly accept!”
